Goals - clarification required

Growing up and since I went to college and started my career, I have participated in more than one (probably more than a dozen) goal setting workshops. Then, why is it that I can't figure out what I want my true goals to be right now? I think I know what I want out of life, but I'm not sure what aspect of that it really is that I want. My husband and I know what kind of life we want for our family. I think we are just a bit cloudy about how we want to make that happen.

We've been talking about making sure we're on the same page with our goals, but lately I feel like I don't even know what book I'm reading, let alone what page I'm on. The next year will bring several events and life experiences that will hopefully help us to work towards the lifestyle that we are yearning for. I hope that we can determine the specifics of our goals so that we can move in the direction we want when those events occur. Maybe we won't have a structured workshop to narrow our goals and work towards them, but I think we both have a desire to build the life we want and that will be our inspiration.